I don't know about you guys, but I struggled a lot in the self care department in 2019. To those of you who made yourself a priority last year - kudos! There were so many factors that contributed to my lacking such as family setbacks, moving, starting a new position at work, and birthing a new business. Although each of these were legitimate reasons, I know that I still have to hold myself accountable, and work on not always putting myself last. Can we all agree to indulge in more self-care this year? If you're needing a good place to start or some ideas on how to achieve this, continue reading.
The first thing that I will be doing is allowing myself to wine down for 10-15 min after getting home from work and or picking up the kids. I'm guilty of coming home and immediately starting to clean or cook dinner while still in my work clothes! This is not good - it makes me more anxious and stressed. Instead, I'm going to commit to changing my clothes first, and then either laying down in the bed or sitting down to regroup. Only then, will I start cleaning or cooking. This way, I'm better prepared and can say a quick prayer for energy, grab a glass of wine, and ask Alexa to play some good music.
The next thing I'll be doing this year to help with self care is deciding at the beginning of each month, what's something that I've either always wanted to do or just something that I genuinely enjoy doing. This could be learning a new hobby, going to a new restaurant, giving myself a facial, scheduling a massage, etc. The goal is to decide at the beginning of the month, and then pick a date that I can feasibly do whatever it is. For this month, I desperately need a massage - I will be treating myself to that before the month is out.
Lastly, I'd like to be more aware and in-tune with my energy levels. Like most moms, we tend to overextend ourselves, and this does a disservice to our self-care needs. One of the best forms of self-care is knowing when you're physically, mentally, or spiritually drained, and taking the time to re-charge. It's okay to say, "Let's talk later" "Let's reschedule" or whatever it is that's commanding your attention.
There's so much more that can be done to improve how you take care of yourself, but it's important to start - no matter how small it may seem. I look forward to hearing how you've improved throughout the year.
Happy New Year!
Now that your candle has made it to your home, it’s important to know how to care for it so that you can get the most use.
The key to a great candle is ensuring your first burn is done right. The first burn sets the tone for how the rest of the candle will burn. You will want to allow 4 hours for your candle to burn and allow the wax to melt as close to the edge as possible. This is what helps your candle burn evenly and give off the best scent.
After you’ve burned your candle for 4 hours, and it has cooled down and solidified, you’ll want to trim your wick 1⁄4 inch before your next burn. Many of us don’t do this today. Even I wasn’t aware of this recommendation until I began my candle business journey. The reason you want to try to trim your wick in between burns is to help your candle continue to burn clean and bright. The wick can take the form of a mushroom shape which can dull the flame.
Another way to care for your candle is to monitor the wax usage. When there’s approximately 1⁄2 of wax left at the bottom of the candle, stop burning your candle. When such little wax is left, the candle jar can get too hot, which is not good for anyone.
Lastly, never leave your candle unattended, and always keep them out of reach of children. We want these candles to provide an experience that relaxes you in a safe environment.
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Gift Buying Musts:
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There has always been a part of me that wanted to be my own boss. I was fortunate to have a taste of entrepreneurship at at early age. My first products were making bead animals and lanyards. My parents helped me set up a booth at a flee market, and I sold my products. I remember being so excited to make things for kids that people wanted and were willing to pay for. This excitement led to me try out various Multi-level marketing companies. I was always sold on the fact that I could essentially be my own boss by selling someone else's products; however, I wasn't selling my own products. My desire to start something of my own grew even stronger. I want to have something that I can pass on to future generations. My family loves candles and natural products. I believe there's beauty in learning what's in the products we love to use and making sure they're safe. So I thought, why not turn this into a business? I was afraid of failure and not knowing where to start, but then I turned to Isaiah 41:10. After reading this scripture, I couldn't help but feel empowered. I have faith in this journey, and I hope to inspire you to start your own business journey!
Tierra Gerdine, Mompreneur and friend passionate about entrepreneurship and sharing her story.